I often ask my psychotherapy clients to complete a PSQ
(Presession Questionnaire) prior to their session on which I have written, “IF
THERE WAS ONE VARIABLE THAT I HAD TO CHOOSE TO PREDICT WHO IS MOST LIKELY TO
BENEFIT FROM PSYCHOTHERAPY, IT WOULD BE THOSE THAT FOLLOW THROUGH WITH AND
COMPLETE THEIR HOMEWORK.”
I had written that
some years ago, and continue to attest to its truth. But then the task is how to follow through
with what it is we want to change or improve about ourselves? How do we reduce procrastination and increase
productivity? I often ask clients when you change for the better, what
will that look like? How will we know
that the change has taken place? What will
be different? This is an excellent way
to form a goal in your mind; by making your goal specific and imagining the
benefits of your self-improvement. It is
also helpful to make changes as part of your daily routine. For example, people are often consistent with
their meditation practice if they meditate the same time every day or the
exercise enthusiast who invariably goes to the gym immediately after work.
Another strategy or technique for self-improvement is just
the process of logging and tracking what it is you are trying to change. In
this way, a food log or calorie counter phone app can be helpful for weight
loss and I, yet again, refer to Insight
Timer for tracking meditation sessions. I recently started referring
psychotherapy clients to the website MindQuire
which can be very helpful for both therapist and client to monitor client’s
follow through with homework and use of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
techniques. MindQuire also lists a number of research articles related to the
benefits of psychotherapy homework. To
help clients stay on task, I often recommend the Pomodoro Technique , a time-management
focus technique to help motivate, concentrate, and achieve a sense of
accomplishment by working on a specific undertaking for a short amount of time.
With the establishment of goals and a little bit of
structure and practice, change is ALWAYS possible. If you lose your focus or
become distracted, don’t be discouraged. As the Pomodoro strategy advises, “The
next Pomodoro (activity) will go better.”
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